TOO BIG

A Guide for Coping when Pain Replaces Pleasure

by
Robert W. Birch, Ph.D.
Retired Sex Therapist

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It is no laughing matter when intercourse is painful. When there is discomfort and not erotic pleasure, anxiety builds and additional problems might develop, such as the unconscious tightening of the muscles surround the vaginal opening (a condition known as vaginismus). Quite often, however, a tight vagina is not the problem, it is the size of the penis. Bigger is not always better and sometimes there is not a comfortable fit because the penis is too long, too thick or both.

There are ways to cope, adjustments that can be made and alternatives to be explored. This low cost book costs only $8.95, plus $5.00 for Priority Mail shipment, but it is worth a million if there has been pain, anxiety and avoidance.

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Intercourse is painful for most women if her partner's penis is so thick she is unable to get her fingers around it. This is a greater problem that a penis that is too long. The TOO BIG Guide offers ideas and resources for dealing with an erection that does not fit comfortably.

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