TOO BIG
A Guide for Coping when Pain Replaces Pleasure
by
Robert W. Birch, Ph.D.
Retired Sex Therapist
It is no laughing matter when intercourse is painful. When there is discomfort and not erotic pleasure, anxiety builds and
additional problems might develop, such as the unconscious tightening of the muscles surround the vaginal opening (a
condition known as vaginismus). Quite often, however, a tight vagina is not the problem, it is the size of the penis.
Bigger is not always better and sometimes there is not a comfortable fit because the penis is too long, too thick or both.
There are ways to cope, adjustments that can be made and alternatives to be explored. This low cost book costs only $8.95,
plus $5.00 for Priority Mail shipment, but it is worth a million if there has been pain, anxiety and avoidance.
Add a twelve-page sexual pain questionnaire
for only $1.00 when purchased with the eMail Guide. This comprehensive questionnaire was developed by Dr. Birch for use in
his clinical practice, but can also be an aide for a woman to begin to understand all the factors related to the origin of
her pain and the consequences. It is recommended that after printing the form out and responding to it the woman take it to
her gynecologist or her sex therapist, as it might add to a more accurate diagnosis of the sexual pain problem.
The questionnaire also will come as a PDF file eMail attachment.
WE WILL PRINT THE GUIDE AND THE QUESTIONNAIRE OUT FOR YOU AND MAIL BOTH (WITHIN THE UNITED STATES) VIA FIRST CLASS MAIL FOR
JUST $6.95 AND THIS INCLUDES THE POSTAGE.
Below you will find additional information and related resources for those dealing with sexual pain.
Additional resources for vaginal comfort, health and pleasure.
DILDO SIZE
To best understand the thickness of a dildo, an important consideration when dealing with sexual pain, it is helpful to
know both the diameter and the circumference of the toy. Both measurements are given on this site.
- 1 inch diameter = a 3.5 inch circumference
- 1.5 inch diameter = a 5.5 inch circumference
- 1.75 inch diameter = a 6 inch circumference
- 2 inch diameter = a 7 inch circumference
- 2.5 inch diameter = a 8.5 inch circumference
Intercourse is painful for most women if her partner's penis is so thick she is unable to get
her fingers around it. This is a greater problem that a penis that is too long. The TOO BIG Guide offers ideas and resources for dealing with an erection that
does not fit comfortably.
Check out our handpicked dildos. If you do not see sizes, be sure to ask Dr. Birch.
Many women enjoy the versatility of a vibrator that can be used
vaginally or applied directly to their clitoris. We picked this one for our site because it is 7" long but of reasonable
thickness (diameter of 1" which is a 3.5" circumference). It is included in the White Nights Pleasure Kit. Be sure to check
it out.
Check out the Penis Book
Natural Contours Energie Kegel Exerciser
It is known that childbirth and natural aging can weaken the vagina and pelvic floor muscles, causing incontinence and a
loss of pleasurable feelings during orgasm. The Kegel Exerciser is the newest edition to the Natural Contours line.
LEARN MORE ABOUT THIS KEGEL EXERCISER
LEARN MORE ABOUT THE PC MUSCLES AND THE IMPORTANCE OF KEEPING THEM HEALTHY
LEARN MORE ABOUT THE KEGEL EXERCISES FOR VAGINAL TONE AND PLEASURABLE ORGASMS
LEARN MORE ABOUT SEXUAL PAIN AND VAGINISMUS>
LEARN HOW TO MAKE THE FIRST TIME AS COMFORTABLE AS POSSIBLE
FIND INFORMATION AND RESOURCES FOR UNDERSTANDING SEX THERAPY AND FIND A QUALIFIED THERAPISTt
INFORMATION ON FEMALE SEXUAL ANATOMY
INFORMATION AND RESOURCES ON THE G SPOT
LEARN ABOUT FEMALE EJACULATION
FIND A LIST OF FREE ARTICLES ON FEMALE ORGASM
BUT WHAT ABOUT A SHORT PENIS? THEY DO COME IN ALL SIZES! READ THE ARTICLE WITH INFORMATION AND SUGGESTIONS FOR MEN
WHO ARE CONCERNED ABOUT BEING TOO
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SENSUAL MASSAGE POCKET GUIDE
Illustrated Instruction
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Offering your partner a sensual massage brings special feelings of satisfaction and confidence. You'll learn how to do it
with skill through these photos and instructions.
- 6" x 4.25"
- 128 Pages
- Soft Cover
- Suggested Retail Price $7.95
Our Low Price is $6.50 plus $5.00 for Priority Mail within the United States.
We ship worldwise, but payment most be by PayPal and additional postage is required for international
shipment.
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